The youngest of Serbia's current parents were children themselves when the country was in war just over a decade ago. Many had difficult childhoods and now face problems as parents. Zeljko Markovic, a Serbian blogger, wrote this (SRP) on his B92 blog:
Yesterday, I read in one of Serbian daily that, according to a UNICEF research, more than 70 percent of children in Serbia are brought up the wrong way. Namely, parents use methods of verbal and physical punishment because they don’t know of any other way and they were brought up the same way. These methods have different kinds of consequences on the children's character and their mental development. In the future, we’ll have a generation in Serbia that will be frustrated and that will have lots of social and psychological problems and illnesses.
If today's parents - who were surveyed by the UNICEF - use the same correctional methods which were used by their parents, it would mean that we live in a country with distorted social and psychological values…
Perhaps this is the main reason for all our troubles of the last few years, or maybe these methods of bringing up children are just a condition that made it possible for the people to survive the years of war, crime, corruption and, now, of the primaeval accumulation of the capital.
I think that the UNICEF’s data is very significant, and the government has to exert influence to change the 19th-century methods of raising children for the new models.
It’s time for the new people…
But they form themselves within families…
And families are formed by society…
A comment by Zeljka Buturovic:
Not everything that gets published in newspapers is true. Maybe parents punish children because they are not informed about the new correctional trends, and maybe that is the only way to control them. There is no reason for someone to think that verbal and physical punishment permanently damages a child's personality, except for some extreme cases.
A comment by V. Stojkovic:
2 comments · »»The best theoreticians of the classical and modern psychology and pedagogy […] agree it is enough to love your children. There are very good children whose parents have never read a book on children's upbringing. It is not necessary for parents to be experts in upbringing, but it is necessary that parents love their children.
Love your children, no matter what the UNICEF says.
The synchronized worldwide launch of Harry Potter and the Deathly Hallows, fell at 2:01 a.m. local time in Israel, during the Jewish Sabbath, when Israeli law requires most businesses to close. Nevertheless, Steimatzky, Israel's biggest bookstore chain, held a gala event in the Tel-Aviv port, launching the book at the appointed hour. The Minister of Industry, Commerce and Employment, Eli Ishai, requested from major book stores in Israel not to begin sales of the new Harry Potter book during the Sabbath, but rather to delay it until the end of the Sabbath. He intends to place a fine and prosecute stores which will violate the basic Israeli law for working hours.
Steimatzky, ran the event as planned, drawing thousands of anxious fans late last night. Israeli law forbids employment of Jewish labor at the time of Sabbath. But in reality, there are growing number of businesses open and fully active during the Sabbath. Even if fined, it is still highly profitable for most to stay open on the supposed day of rest. However, in contrast to many people's beliefs, the purpose of this law is not solely religious, but also contains social intentions, protecting employees from their bosses. The legislator felt the importance of giving every employee, secular or religious, the right for one rest day per week, to spend with family. But in such competitive, capitalistic settings, when there is strong demand for leisure during the weekend, it will be met by market forces, even if it means receiving some monetary losses from enforced fines. The overall profit usually exceeds that loss.
An Israeli blogger describes some of the complexities of this law :
זה לא סוד שלאורך שנים נפערות שוב ושוב מחלוקות קשות בין דתיים לחילוניים בנוגע לדרך התנהלות סדרים מסוימים במדינה, ובפרט בנושא השבת שהוא עניין בעייתי במיוחד. חוק שעות עבודה ומנוחה קובע את השבת כיום מנוחה וטומן בחובו איסור מפורש על עסקים מסחריים לפעול בשבת, אולם המציאות בישראל כיום מוכיחה שאיסור זה אינו נאכף כמעט לחלוטין.ראו מה קורה היום - ההפקרות חוגגת: יותר ויותר עסקים נפתחים בשבת, מרכזי קניות ומתחמים גדולים פועלים ללא הפרעה וכתוצאה מכך נוצרת תחרות קשה בין רשתות-ענק לבין עסקים עצמאיים קטנים הסופגים הפסדים רבים כיוון שלא יכולים להרשות לעצמם להעסיק עובדים בשבת.נשאלת השאלה: האם זה הוגן להפעיל את החוק באופן סלקטיבי כזה - האם הטלת קנסות על חנויות הספרים שיפיצו את הארי פוטר בשבת זה מה שישנה את כל זה? האם זה מה שיציל את דמותה של השבת בפרהסיה? מדוע דווקא עכשיו בוחר השר לשחק אותה סופרמן שרץ להציל את דמותה של השבת מידיהם של החוטאים והכופרים? איפה נמצאים אלי ישי ורביץ כל שבת כאשר המוני בני ישראל צובאים על מרכזי הקניות ההומים?… הגיע הזמן שתאכפו את החוק כמו שצריך, או שתמשיכו לא להתערב כפי שעשיתם עד עכשיו.
עוד תהייה שעולה אצלי היא, האם השר הנכבד היה מגיב באותה צורה אלמלא היה מדובר בספר שלכאורה קורא תגר על האמונה הדתית.
האם אין גבול לצביעות?…
Its not a secret that over the years, complex disagreements emerge between the religious and secular citizens, with regards to the way certian issues are handled in this country, the topic of Sabbath is especially problematic. Israeli law determines the Sabbath as a day of rest, and explicitly forbids commercial entities from operating during that time. In reality, this law is hardly enforced. Look at what is happening today. More and more businesses are open on Saturday, shopping centers and other commercial areas operate without interference, and as a result, there exists tough competition between the larger chain-stores and the small independent businesses, who absorb many losses as they cannot afford to employ workers on Saturday (and absorb fines).
I question how appropriate it is to operate this law in such a selective way - is it solving anything by placing fines on book stores that sell Harry Potter on Saturday? Will this actually save the public face of Sabbath? Why does the minister choose this specific moment to save the face of Sabbath from sinners by acting like a superhero? Where is Eli Ishai and Ravitz every Saturday when masses of Israelis gather at shopping malls? It is time that you enforce the law properly, or continue your non-intervention.
I still wonder if the minister would react in the same manner if the sold book did not publically criticize religious beliefs. Is there no limit for hypocrisy?
Following is an image of one of the posters placed in the event space, which drew thousands of excited fans to buy the book early Saturday morning.

Bahrain's bloggers have moved on this week to comment on a protest held outside the Iranian Embassy in protest against an editorial by Iranian editor Hossein Shariatmadari, who stated that Bahrain should become a part of Iran. Others talk about Embassy interviews for Visas, the release of a Guantanamo detainee, why Bahrain is vying to build the highest skyscraper and preparing for the new release of Harry Potter.
Bahrain and Iran
Last week we reported on the brouhaha surrounding comments by Hossein Shariatmadari, Iranian newspaper editor and government advisor, stating that Bahrain should be returned to Iran. This led to a demonstration outside the Iranian Embassy in Manama, and Mohammed AlMaskati gives his opinion of what occurred:
Now, away from the nonsense of Shariatmadari; there is absolutely no excuse for the shouts recited on that protest, referring to Iran as “Majusia” (a term originally meaning Zoroastrians) and used back in the 1980s, majus was part of Iraqi propaganda vocabulary of the Iran-Iraq War to refer to Iranians in general. … Thus, in their eyes, this protest against Iran took on the dimensions of not only a struggle for Arab nationalism and Bahraini Patriotism, but also a campaign in the name of Islam.
What they forgot (and by they, I am referring to Members of the Parliament, religious figures and activists that were present in the protest and recited such racist chants) that the accusation, or point of view was that of Hossein Shariatmadari and only Hossein Shariatmadari, what they forgot is that he does not represent the Iranian Regime, or even anyone for that matter except for himself.
This very same story happened when the Danish Newspaper published cartoons of depicting the prophet and the entire Muslim world went on a rampage accusing the Danish government of blasphemy.
Mohammed is equally unimpressed with a placard showing Iranian leaders greeting anti-Zionist Jewish leaders, used to imply that Iran is collaborating with Israel in a Zionist plot. Mahmood is also angry at the sentiments expressed at the demonstration, especially at the (self-contradictory) slogan ‘Nazi Zionist Republic of Iran', and believes the demonstrators were jumping on a sectarian bandwagon:
Let me state that the morons who printed that slogan above do not represent me and are not speaking in my name, nor for that matter the vast majority of Bahrainis from whichever religious persuasion. They are sullying their own name by once again exposing their racial and sectarian intentions.
Butterfly feels there was a lost opportunity:
Fareed Esa is looking at the silver lining:
Anti-secular sentiments
LuLu looks behind the recent calls by the senior Shi'i religious scholar in Bahrain, Shaikh Isa Qassim, to mobilise against secularism, and sees different forces at play:
So this has been the new “big thing” in Bahrain for the past couple of weeks. Shaikh Isa Qassim, head of the “Olama” Islamic Council (highest Shia religious body in Bahrain), had given a Friday sermon at Al-Sadiq mosque in Duraz 2 weeks ago in which he demonized “seculars” and “secularism” as enemies of Islam and of the people of Bahrain. “Down with the seculars!”, the crowds shouted..
As usual, a religious message had a political background. The Shaikh's message comes following the controversy over the 1% unemployment insurance tax scheme, which the Olama council had decreed un-Islamic, as it compels employees to pay contribution against their will. The so-called seculars, and this term is used loosely, as all of them had indicated their commitment to Islam as the official state religion, disagreed. Some figures in Wa'ad and parliament had called on the Olama Council to refrain from rushing to use religious fatwas to silence the debate on this issue. Apparently, this call had struck a nerve. In that sermon and those that followed, Shaikh Qassim continued to accuse the “seculars” of waging a war on Islam and called upon his followers to fight the “demon.”
For more details of LuLu's analysis, see here.
Visa problems
A number of bloggers have recounted their experiences with foreign embassies this week. I'll Have One of Those is shocked at the treatment that Bahrainis have apparently received from the French Embassy in Manama recently when applying for visas:
The French embassy in Bahrain is an inept disaster area. First of all, let me just be frank. These people do not want us anywhere near their countries; or at least that is what we are to understand from their barbaric and rather uncivilized visa application process. From their behavior, it can be concluded that they aim to make attaining a visa as difficult as it possibly can be in order to limit the number of rag head sand monkeys entering their wonderful and flawless countries.
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First of all, people beginning to queue for visas at 3 and 4 am is not just illogical, it is cruel and unfair and shows utter disregard for this nation and its people. I’m very sure the French embassy in any other (non-Arab/Muslim) country would not have the gall to treat its citizens like they have chosen to treat us.
And Rayyash has written about his dealings with the American Embassy; having been invited to attend a conference in the United States, he applied for a visa – for his first ever visit to the ‘Great Satan'. His initial application was via the internet, then he had to attend an interview in the Embassy, and he gives us an idea of the questions he was asked, and his responses:
ملاحظة: مساعدتي لم تسأل نفس الاسئلة وقالوا لها تعالي إستلمي تأشيرتك بعد 4 أيام حيث سوف تكون جاهزة
Note: My assistant was not asked the same questions, and they told her to come and take her visa after four days when it would be ready.
Guantanamo detainee
Mohammed AlMaskati does not share the general relief expressed at the release from Guantanamo Bay of a Bahraini/Saudi citizen, Juma Al Dossary, who had been detained for five years without charge:
I simply can not understand why is this guy being treated like a national hero? Now I understand the horrors and the mental and physical pressure the inmates of Gitmo endured, I’ve read over and over stories and tales of continuous unbearable torture and the unimaginable interrogation techniques they were put under, which is all fine (I weep for them, from a human to human standpoint…maybe), but that is it.
Why have we forgotten that our local prisons around the region have stories like this till today? Have we forgotten the interrogation techniques that were used in Bahraini prisons during the 90s era? The scandals of rape and sexual harassment in Egyptian prisons that found its way to YouTube? Have we forgotten what happened in the notorious Abu Ghraib prison before the American invasion? The torture clips of Saddam Hussain? Why is this all of a sudden breaking news to us? Why is this guy being treated like some national hero that we should be proud of and pay tribute to the local human right watchdogs and mps that worked for his release?
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Letting this guy loose without trial is absolutely unjustified, he is a suspected terrorist and a member of a banned organization until proven otherwise.
Tallest tower
A number of bloggers wondered at the race to build the world's tallest tower that Bahrain appears to have joined. Ammar is not impressed:
Seems the new fad has turned to which country has the tallest tower. Dubai started it in the region by building the Burj Dubai, which some estimate will reach somewhere between 800 and 900m. Also in Dubai, another tower is being planned; called The-Burj, which should hit something a little past a kilometer. Kuwait is also planning its own tower, at 1,001m, Mubarak Al-Kabeer, and Bahrain will also have one, not yet named but blueprints state it will reach 1,022m.
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Guys, calm the hell down. This is NOT a game; but obviously some people seem to think it is. It's always been in the Gulf countries' blood; they love to show off how much money they have, how developed they are, etc. But don't do it this way. It's so obvious something is going to go terribly wrong here.
Mahmood asks:
We don’t even have the infrastructure to handle the cars on the roads - and by “we” I include all the Arab countries - and we are lacking in just about every other necessary infrastructural and health and safety not to mention human rights and political representation - oh for God’s sake, let’s forget all of those intangibles for a minute, do we just have the fire-fighting and emergency capabilities to deal with such heights? … Somehow I think the priorities are bit screwed up in our countries.
Yagoub has some suggestions for what to do with the building:
What are we going to do with it? Will it be a white elephant like the Millennium Dome in London? …I sat down in my boredom and thought up this list in my head:
1.An excellent solution to the parking crisis in Manama! Over 100 floors of shaded parking is a Bahraini driver’s dream
2. Another great solution for people waiting for houses from the Ministry of Housing and Works
3. Turning the top floor into a space research centre and making it the closest point any Bahraini will get to the moon.
For the rest of the list see here.
Pros and cons
Two other bloggers have been making lists this week. Mohammed AlMaskati gives us a list of eighty-five reasons to complain about life in Bahrain. And aMaL writes her own list of containing eighty-five positive aspects of Bahrain in response.
TechZ tells us about one of the pleasures of summer in Bahrain:
Bahrain’s traffic has reduced so much, yay! Work trip is easier now…parking isn’t that insane as it used to be…on the whole a lot better.
Harry Potter preparations
We finish this week with The Girl With No Face who is making some very serious preparations for the release of the final Harry Potter book, and lists them step-by-step:
Thursday 19th July 2007:
-Must tell work that I won’t be coming in on Sunday. (unless I finish the book) *excited*Friday 20th July 2007 morning:
-Must sleep in to ensure that I’ll be wide awake all night when I get the book.Friday 20th July 2007 afternoon:
-Buy munchies to last me at least three days because I won’t be leaving my bedroom.
-Buy some water to keep me hydrated. (preferably O2 or Evian)
-Buy Davidoff Ultra Lights (Its essential to find the perfect location to enable me to smoke cigarettes when stressed out from the book)
-Buy the ingredients to keep the tradition of making my famous pasta. We have the pasta right before we leave the house to buy the book. (I shall call it my Potter Pasta)
Read the whole schedule here.
More from Bahrain next week!
1 comment · »»Admittedly, I am not Palestinian, nor have I ever lived there. I am currently covering the Palestinian blogosphere for Global Voices because there is no Palestinian volunteer to do so (if you're interested, please contact Global Voices). Why do I mention this? Well you see, the Palestinian blogosphere is a difficult one to figure out - judging by the most popular aggregator, The Gazette, the majority of bloggers tend to repost news stories, which isn't in and of itself a bad thing, but difficult for someone like me, whose job it is to discover what Palestinians themselves are saying!
Yet this week, it seems that many bloggers were pondering the current situation of the world, and of Palestine. Israeli Watch asks what the root causes could be, and says:
What should be the policy of America in the Middle East, in particular with Israel? America should have the courage, and impartiality to indicate to Israel it must completely end its occupation of Palestine.
Meanwhile,
Oranges and Olives is thinking about the world powers and what we can do, or in this case, not do:
“It is not only for what we do that we are held responsible, but also for what we do not do.” The virtuous amongst us try to identify evil, and not do it. However, how often do we consider the act of NOT DOING as evil?
In a world which runs according to a universal system of power and wealth, very few own the power that determines how the world progresses. We all know and refer to the oligarchy of the multinationals and the power of Western Politicians. We consider what Nestle does in Africa, what Coca-Cola does in India and Colombia, what Caterpillar, Motorolla and Intel do in Palestine as evil, and we decide to boycott them.
These corporations are definitely evil in their means. However, did we ever stop to think how we benefit from their deeds?
The blogger concludes the post by saying that “today's ultimate sin is complacency.”
Other bloggers are contemplating more personal issues as well. Decentering Damascus ponders what it really is to be “pro-Palestine” and whether or not that's a good thing:
When I meet foreigners who say that they are pro Palestinians I am not impressed, for to be a pro Palestinian one need to understand the hardship of being a Palestinian, or you're an “academic” “theorist” pro Palestinian who doesn't really know how does it feel to be a refugee or under occupation.
books can teach you the truth, but you can only live the truth right here among us.
Sugar Cubes, on the other hand, is ruminating about ethics:
Sometimes I wonder how ethical it is to be ethical with unethical people. Is it OK to lie to a liar? steal from a thief for example? be a jerk when you’re dealing with bastards? is it OK to sink just as low?
Of course, as always, bloggers are interested in what's going on in the news, and with good reason. Haitham of Sabbah's Blog informs us of a bill which allocates JNF (Jewish National Fund) land in Israel to Jews only:
Even if that land happens to be owned by Palestinians… Israel has over a million non Jewish (Palestinian/Arab) citizens, and while it pretends to be a “democracy” - and as politicians and media the world over parrot the phrase “the only democracy in the Middle East” as if saying it made it so, and as if they were deaf and blind - it is continuously and without international objection passing racist apartheid laws.
Israeli Watch brings good news, something which is often few and far between:
Palestine Times, the only Palestinian newspaper in Israel, will resume publishing their newspaper. Good news indeed for Palestinians under occupation to articulate their problems in the West Bank and Gaza.
Tabula Gaza reports on a wedding party he attended in Deir Al-Balach (Gaza):
The party was a hardcore Fatah celebration and seemed to be almost overshadowed by the constant mention of the groom's political affiliation. The stage was covered in Fatah paraphernalia, most central a picture of a “martyred” friend.
Commenting further on the current struggle in Gaza between Fatah and Hamas, the blogger links to an article about torture going on in Gaza, and adds:
3 comments · »»One cannot forget that in the very building that these men are being tortured in, the perpetrators may well have been tortured themselves by those who today are the victims. Under no circumstances does this justify their actions today. The tables of injustice have turned.
Nothing is black and white.
Earlier this week, we heard from Morocco's Francophone contingent on faith and politics. On Friday, blogger Abdelilah Boukili (whose blog is entitled Regular Comments Based on Issues Raised by BBC world Haveyoursay continued with the former theme, responding to comments on a BBC Have Your Say post in his own blog:
I agree with you that Muslims like you are seeking to be part of the world and not a community apart. There are some mistaken Muslims who still consider one mode of Islam as the best referring to past Muslim heroes, caliphs and Emirs they take as the best example. But as we are human beings, we should be proud of any person who contributes to humanity regardless of their religion. It doesn’t make sense that only Muslims are the only top be favoured by God. God loves anyone who loves his neighbour as he loves himself. This is at least a shared view between Muslims and Christians.
Another popular topic this week was my very own (adopted) city of Meknes, about which Cat in Rabat writes:
I like Meknès. There, I've said it. Out loud. Liking Meknès isn't a something I share with too many of my colleagues but I like it, so there it is.
Having lived in Meknès for quite some time myself, I share the blogger's sentiment - while not as attractive to tourists as its neighbor Fez or as modern and wealthy as Casablanca or Rabat, Meknès has a certain charm, and a fascinating history, which the blogger tells us a bit about:
But unlike any other Moroccan city, Meknès is irrevocably associated with the larger-than-life historical megalomaniac figure of Moulay Ismail (1645-1727). It is nigh impossible to walk the streets of the old city without feeling his noxious evil nefarious weighty presence. Moulay “the Bloodthirsty” Ismail - who was known to kill anyone who looked at him the wrong way - inherited the throne in spite of the some four score other family members who felt that they had a more legitimate right to rule.
One post about Meknes is exciting, but two posts in one week is unheard of. And yet The View From Fez writes about the city as well, sharing with us some links to Meknès travel tales:
In the interest of balance, in case you think our love of Fez has blinded us to the seductive atmosphere of Meknès, we went searching for someone else who considers the city a wonderful place. We did have to search hard, but eventually we found Gay Grant - the author of a story in The Capital Weekly which hails from Maine in the US of A.
But lest you think that Meknès is the only blogworthy subject, bloggers are also discussing the Moroccan Royal Family, which was actually taboo prior to 1999 when the current king, His Majesty King Mohammed VI ascended to the throne. Braveheart-does-the-Maghreb has written a highly informative article on the royal family, in which she concludes:
I think the King is trying to move his country forward. You have to understand this is much like moving the Pacific Plate, you have to go slowly or you get earthquakes. The bombings in 2003 were a direct result of his reforms. The Princess is a real inspiration to the women’s movement here and she does a great deal of work for the Moroccan children and education. There are of course faults and many matters that need to be addressed about and to the royal family, but that is not what this post is about.
Myrtus also shares with us a link about former King Mohammed V (the current king's grandfather), who was recently nominated for the title of Righteous Among Nations by heads of the local Jewish community. The title is awarded by Yad Vashem and given to those who helped Jews while risking their own lives.
Photo of Heri Es-Souani (Agdal Basin) - Meknes, Morocco by Jillian York
0 comments · »»A self-shot video posted anonymously yesterday to 56.com, China's largest video sharing website, is titled:
政府强制整地并殴打群众
群众呼声:开发商强行征地,政府支持,法律何在,天理何在??
A bare breast with signs of assault is shown at the end of the video.
The beating seems to have taken place in Zhangsheliangcai Village, Shangdunbo Township, Fuzhou City, Jiangxi Province and against the residents of Village Group 2. A semi-thorough Google search brings up no other accounts of the attack, but a little more Googling brings up an old statement on the local Fuzhou government website which writes that the numbers of evicted Shangdunbo Township farmers in 2001 going to petition first to the provincial capital and from there to Beijing were so high that in 2002 this small city district became one of the ‘top ten key management areas in the province', that efforts were made to resolve “the conflict” and that from that point on there were no more petitions coming out of Shangdunbo Township.
Coincidentally, 2002 is when whoever posted the video to 56.com claims that their protests no longer had any effect. The government statement, which appears to have run at the time in the Fuzhou Daily newspaper, is dated 2003. A little more Googling turns up another (and there are more) old document also from the Fuzhou City Shangdunbo Township government, this time dated 2004, which calls for interested investors, given, it writes, the government's inability to borrow or raise sufficient funds at the time. A contact name and number is provided there.
Here's the remainder of the text accompanying the video:
简 介: 群众呼声:开发商强行征地,政府支持,法律何在,天理何在??
江西省抚州市临川区上顿渡镇章舍梁曹村第二村民小组。本组地处城郊,共有人口240余人;良田130亩。在2000年临川区行政大楼新建向本村征地80余亩,只付10%征地款,本次征地合同本是从2000年至2002年间有效,然而已经超期5年,合同已无效。其余征地款至今未付,导致本村良田断切水源,无法耕种,全面荒芜、损失惨重,在2007年,区政府又向本村征良田6亩建区间路,每亩征地价格10000元。再次造成本组良田荒芜,无法耕种。遭到本组社员强烈反对。接着,区政府在今年7月20日,早上8点半,带有150余人,在未得到本组法人代表签字的情况下,强行开工。本组找其理论,他们不但不听,抛之脑后,反而出言伤人,殴打百姓。其中有多名百姓受伤、损失惨重,民愤极大。现本组无一寸土地可耕作。造成本组240人生存困难。为了伸张正义,讨回公道,特此呼应各界人士给于大力支持我组民生。望相关政府部门履行职能!
A copy of this video has been saved offline in case it should ever be removed from 56.com.
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Belatedly, a link to the post on the first anniversary of legalization of same-sex partnerships in the Czech Republic - at NvB: Bored in Brno?: “[…] 346 same-sex couples were united during the year. Of that number, at least two of the pairs have already divorced.”
Belatedly, a link to the post on the 650th anniversary of the Charles Bridge in Prague and the primeval beech forests of the Carpathian - at NvB: Bored in Brno?.
MMMMMMM from Lebanon posts pictures of his home in Lebanon and muses: “I wonder if one day my children are gonna grow up where I grew.”
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